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it was Wednesday, and when I looked on Swedish national television's talk shows ”the uk come together”. Requirements the response was amazing, as usual, the politicians and social services, and schools, and the media and the police: do this, do that, pay, reform, respect for, and investigate, to dispose, to teach, to punish, to cherish, invest, fix, and so on.
' No.' We're talking about parents in this context, they are either powerless to, or the actual cause of the problem: perhaps, the criminals, the drug addicts, the broken, traumatized, or hedersanfrätta, I don't know, what is hinted at only. L-led by ms Nyamko Sabuni explained that many of the criminals, the young people would have to be moved out of their home. And it's true for sure. However, this is not an answer to my question, a little bit of a different form, it reads: "Why we don't see ungdomskriminaliteten in the first place, which is a huge föräldramisslyckande?
”Vulnerable,” and the successful " parentsand Here were interviewed with a young, Danish, Turkish to Danish tv. He was asked to explain why he, despite the fact that he had been brought up in a strained utanförskapsområde, could not have been carried out on the criminal path. He laughed and then explained that it was because his father had always seen to it that he did, studying and not hanging out with criminal peers.
I'm Sure there are thousands of stories like this in Sweden, too, about the young people who, thanks to their parents ' demands and cares of this life, managed to keep out of the way, in spite of the deep drainage ditches on both sides.
However, if the parents are able to succeed if they can motivate their children to perform in school, to think about their future, and to refrain from engaging in mischief, and, what is worse, they can also fail.
of course, We have abolished the föräldraauktoriteten as a duty and an ideal. At most, it'll be as a parent to help his already-proficient children to be in the right skolkö, and, in addition, to find the right range of identities.
There may be more or less of the wellbeing Medelklassverige, where the life still is filled.
Restore the parental rights
We have to restore the sight of the föräldraauktoritet, and begin to expect that parents will take responsibility for ensuring that their children do not cause harm to others. It is, indeed, an obligation according to the parental code. That is, we can talk about.
can We talk about how to create incentives. We are able to point out examples of good practice. We can talk about that, it should be mandatory that, as a new arrival, a parent, take a course in how to raise children, to make them reliable members of the society, not under clan members.
We can talk about the contributions of different types to be more dependent on whether you learn to English properly. We are able to identify and discuss openly the view of parenthood in a variety of ethnic, socio-economic and cultural segments of the population.
None of this is going to solve the emergency of the situation we find ourselves in. However, if we don't start pushing on the varbölden, it will not be that much better, either.
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Date Of Update: 02 March 2020, 10:00
